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When I mentioned about taking a break from my work as a Mistress. I have been to travelling a few places. South Korea was one of them and I enjoyed the place much more than I expected. The people there weren’t that rude or rough as I thought they might be. There are really cute and friendly folks who had left good impressions for me. As I was enjoying my journey with my friends, I have noticed some beggars here and there. And that kicks me thinking about the life path in everyone.

I believe these beggars have no better choice when they decide to move on their life in this way. They may have problems that we cannot see or tell just by looking at them which is not up to us to judge. But do you see what I see?

Subs may be looking good financially or physically, but their similarities with the beggars are not the dollars in their pockets. But the encourage to move on with what they feel right and press on.

Normal people wouldn’t be able to see or feel for the fetishes and fantasies in a sub just like how we are unable to see if the beggar may have multiple health issues that stops them from earning normally. The subs are not abnormal, so are the beggars. They are just facing situations that may not be so common to the others.

They have more courage and determination than “normal” people. The amount of humiliation and stress from the public eye when they sits outside the train station to hope for that one kind soul who do not judge and give a chance. The amount of anxiety and worries in a sub when they start talking to someone about their hidden fetishes and prays that the other do not judge and give a chance. Isn’t it hard enough? But as long as we do not judge them and give them a chance. You will see the good in everyone of them. And that is I saw for this past 3 years as a Mistress.

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Greet Your Mistress

Luna Short HairAs what my earlier post had mentioned. I was taking a supposing long break from my domming sessions. But apparently being  in this for 3 good years, how am I able to ignore all the wishes and requests of my subs. The long known ones and of course those sincere ones.

From this, I would like to give thanks and tell you guys that I will still be taking session then. Although I may not be able to commit fully like how I did it before. But I would spare out my free time to meet you guys. Sounds good?

I am happy that this is the result of my effort putting in for the past 3 years. And I can’t wait to see you guys again. I wouldn’t make too many changes so that you can be comfortable serving me again. The tribute will still be the same and as for the venue, it would depend on the availability. It will either be at my place or a hotel.

And as for Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, I will not be holding sessions there at the moment. However, interested subs may still email me to enquire for sessions first. There will be updates in the other area of the site as well. So just take note about it. So I shall look forward to you guys serving and greet me again.

Hear from you soon!

Signed off,

Mistress Luna

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Your tribute to me – Appreciation

My dear boys,

This post is to give you a better understanding of why we collect tributes. 1428567276817“Why collect tributes?” I’m sure this thought has crossed a few minds. Firstly, the most obvious reason would be that although BDSM is my lifestyle choice, being professional dominatrix is also my career. Our privilege is how much we get to enjoy our work.

The next reason touches a little closer to heart. Your tribute to any professional dominatrix is not a payment for a service. Rather, it’s an appreciation to them as they spend time with you, understanding you, and designing a unique session catered for you every time you visit us. It is also a filtering system, reducing insincere requests. Tributes are not a precise measuring tool for sincere subs, but imagine what happens if we do not collect tributes. I am sure you will know and by the time you get to me, I would not even know if you deserve my time.

Every session that I hold with you is unique, and no two sessions will ever be exactly the same. As a professional, I search for new ways to keep the sessions fresh, creating an experience that neither of us will forget. To attain that I will ask questions, understand your general background  and see what prompted you to BDSM to craft up a combination of actions or words to reach the reason why you here with me. Of course you can make it easier by emailing me your fantasies and describing more about yourself.

An intimate non sexual session is what I personally aim for. Before the lights come back on and we step out of our roles, it is my pleasure to let you experience what I am capable of . I derive pleasure from  knowing I have shown you my side of the world.

Lastly why do I ask questions about your physical conditions prior to a session?  It is to ensure that you receive according to your body condition and enjoy/suffer a session without repercussion. BDSM is not about how much you can take risk at one shot, try seeing it as a walking journey and after some time when you look back, you can tell yourself you have been there and done that. You should never risk taking a session when the dom/domme does not bother know about your health condition.

At the end of every session you will see me spend time reviewing our sessions. With this step I aim to bring you further as you return for more.  With this post I am sure you have understand the general flow of what I call a professional session.

 

Please note that appointments are subject to availability and are first come first served basis. Session rates are exclusive of a SGD$50/RM$80 for the use of play studio. Fill in the contact form below to schedule your appointment with me.

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Shopping For New Toys

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Girls love to shop, and why should being a Mistress make me any different? In fact, shopping makes me happy, especially when I get gifts. I believe that buying is half the fun. The other half of the fun comes from buying something for someone else. So….recently, I find myself doing quite a bit of shopping for my dear dear subs. Like what you see?

 

A new pair of heels, new stockings, and brand new toys. A twin-vibrating cock ring and a vibrating butt plug. Would you like to see Mistress all dressed up in something? How about we add in a little spice by trying out my new toys?

They say a picture says a thousand words, but what about me in front of you? My shopping spree is definitely not over. I’m always on the lookout for something new to add to our play sessions and I want your input. If you find something pretty on the internet, share it with me. You just might see it in real life. Or you could always…make me happy?

 

Please note that appointments are subject to availability and are first come first served basis. Session rates are exclusive of a SGD$50/RM$80 for the use of play studio. Fill in the contact form below to schedule your appointment with me.

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He wore that mask for me

10 years of friendship creates a bond between two people that cannot be found anywhere else. He is my special friend. Someone who I’ve known even before I know about BDSM and also the first person I confided in when I thought of being a professional dominatrix. I thought he would despise me for having such thoughts, but he never did, nor did he give me any weird looks. Instead, we had many small conversations and exchanged pointers on what we each thought BDSM was about. (Yes, he researched about BDSM just for me)

Over our conversations, he admitted that his stressful life caused him to have a lot of uneasiness. He was so stressed that he would often dream about work while sleeping. A job that required his constant focus and attention. A job that required him to lead. A job that required his control over every decision. He told me he needed a solace…but also that he was not submissive, and even if he did submit, it would never be with me.

BDSM, Cane, Mistress, Male SubmissionAfter about a year of supporting me in my journey, he turns up at my door with breakfast, all smiles, and tells me that he’s finally ready. I was still a little confused at what caused the sudden change. After finally discussing with someone else, he felt he was ready to put down his power, to balance his life and his emotions. I asked him who he had chosen to be his Domme and that’s when everything changed.

He told me that he didn’t think he could submit to anyone else. There was no trust there. But with me, although he already knew me, it also meant he could trust me. For him to take that first step to put his power down…that was something that really moved me. And I am so thankful to have the privilege to walk this journey with him. I am not like other Mistresses who will tell you “I AM GODDESS”. Nor do I need to be showered with gifts. A good attitude and willingness to open up is what brings me joy.

We held a lot more conversations after that day. We were on the phone daily for 3 days (he’s a special case) before I finally felt that he was indeed ready to submit. It was finally session day. He came in with a long list of fetishes and what he wanted to accomplish in our first 3 hour session and immediately, I knew something was wrong. He was back to his same old self, trying to control every little thing. The 1st thing I had to do was to let him drop all his expectations of the 3 hour session. After all, it’s in the expectations we have that creates so much stress in us.

As for how the session went after that, I think I’ll be keeping it a secret close to my heart. All I can say is, he wore that mask for me. BDSM is my career. But never forget, it’s also my passion. Who cares about how experienced you are. It’s a journey, a companionship, not a business venture. I’ve started my BDSM journey. Have you?

 

Please note that appointments are subject to availability and are first come first served basis. Session rates are exclusive of a SGD$50/RM$80 for the use of play studio. Fill in the contact form below to schedule your appointment with me.

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